Infidelity
It STILL hurts!!
Even though some time has passed, you’re still crushed from being betrayed by the person you loved.
You try to forget it, avoiding anything that might remind you of the past. It’s become a daily, burdensome exercise.
Maybe you have some “good days” where it doesn’t haunt you. But it’s not long before SOMETHING reminds you of your partner’s infidelity.
If only you knew WHY!! But somehow, trying to understand it only makes the pain worse.
Moving on seems impossible.
Even if you’re separated, that ghost still follows you.
But if you stayed together, you know it hasn’t been easy to “forgive and forget.” Your good-faith efforts at moving on have resulted in arguments, distrust, and contempt.
Understandably, you’re angry, and it’s natural to want to express that anger. But you probably haven’t been able to control it. You may have even said something unimaginable and later regretted it.
How do you let go??
The truth is that many can’t because of the trauma caused by infidelity.
Working together, we will diffuse the memory that continues to trigger explosive behavior making reconciliation impossible.
Carefully in therapy, we will explore the memories influencing your behavior through talk therapy.
Once we have identified the painful images and memories, we will utilize Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) to help halt the thought that fires off unwanted behaviors. This will relocate the memory to a place in your mind where it will be more manageable. Once we have reached this place, I will work with you and your partner, if requested to help them understand the forgiving and letting go process, which I break down into three phases.
In this process, I will coach and counsel you and your partner to the other side of healing. Let me clear the path, and we will walk toward your healing.
Love conquers all, but only when the heart is healed.
I know you’re hurting right now…
But there is a path forward.
Imagine waking up content in your relationship. The distrust that once was normal between you has evaporated. Your days have become even lighter, filled with joy and love toward your partner.
Infidelity is difficult to overcome… but not impossible.
If you are ready to give yourself a chance to trust, forgive, and love again…
